Kidnapping survivor Elizabeth Smart tells of her heartbreak at the death of Gabby Petito.

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Kidnapping survivor Elizabeth Smart has told of her heartbreak after van-like blogger Gabby Petito was found dead, and spoke of her concern that many missing women like her may never be found.

Smart was kidnapped in 2002 when she was 14, and held for nine months by street preacher Brian David Mitchell and his wife.

But she told Jada Pinkett Smith on Facebook Watch’s Red Table Talk show that she had been terrified at the idea that she might be killed and her body never found by her parents.

‘In Gabby’s case in particular, I mean, I was alive, and I came home, and hers tragically has not ended that way,’ said Smart, who is now an activist for victims’ rights. 

‘But knowing what it’s like being on the other side and potentially what may have happened and what may have led up to her final moments, and understanding probably a lot of what she was feeling, it’s heartbreaking.’ 

Smart said she remembered that when she was kidnapped by Mitchell in 2002, she was concerned that her body would not be found.

She said: ‘I asked him if he was going to rape and kill me if he could do it close to my house because it was important to me that my parents find my body and know that I hadn’t run away.

‘So when I think of Gabby Petito, when I think of all of these other victims, I feel like they still deserve every much to be found so that their stories have an ending as well.’

Petito’s case has caught worldwide attention as prime suspect Brian Laundrie, 23, is still on the run. It was revealed yesterday that Petito, 22, died of strangulation, but the local coroner could not release any more information due to Wyoming law.

Her body was discovered in a campsite close to the Grand Teton National Park in Wyoming on September 19 – eight days after her family reported her missing, and 22 days after the last reported sighting of her alive on August 27. 

It has been revealed on Tuesday that Gabby Petito’ cause of death was through strangulation, according to her autopsy results

Kidnapping survivor Elizabeth Smart has revealed how she begged her abductor to rape and kill her close to her house so that her parents would be able to find her body

Kidnapping survivor Elizabeth Smart has revealed how she begged her abductor to rape and kill her close to her house so that her parents would be able to find her body

Kidnapping survivor Elizabeth Smart has revealed how she begged her abductor to rape and kill her close to her house so that her parents would be able to find her body

The 33-year-old shared harrowing details of her experience in a candid new interview with Jada Pinkett Smith and her mother Adrienne Banfield-Norris on Red Table Talk

The 33-year-old shared harrowing details of her experience in a candid new interview with Jada Pinkett Smith and her mother Adrienne Banfield-Norris on Red Table Talk

The 33-year-old shared harrowing details of her experience in a candid new interview with Jada Pinkett Smith and her mother Adrienne Banfield-Norris on Red Table Talk

'My parents always said the worst part of having me gone was not knowing if I was alive and out there or if I was dead,' she said (pictured April 2003)

'My parents always said the worst part of having me gone was not knowing if I was alive and out there or if I was dead,' she said (pictured April 2003)

‘My parents always said the worst part of having me gone was not knowing if I was alive and out there or if I was dead,’ she said (pictured April 2003)

Smart, 33, who was famously taken from her family’s Salt Lake City home at knifepoint when she was just 14, shared harrowing details of her experience with Pinkett Smith and her mother Adrienne Banfield-Norris.

‘My parents always said the worst part of having me gone was not knowing if I was alive and out there or if I was dead,’ she told the women. 

Abductor and self-proclaimed prophet Brian David Mitchell didn’t kill her — but he and his wife Wanda Barzee did take her away from home, chaining her down in a makeshift campsite nearby before moving her to Lakeside, California.

She spent nine months, from June 2002 to March 2003, in captivity, with Mitchell performing a ‘marriage’ ceremony with her and raped her repeatedly.  

Smart was eventually found at age 15 after witnesses in Sandy, Utah called police. One said she recognized Smart, while another said she recognized the abductor.

Smart said on Red Table Talk that while she spent those nine months wishing someone would find her, there were times she lost hope she’d ever make it home.

‘I always wanted to be rescued. I don’t know that I always had hope. There were some pretty dark times for sure,’ she said.

Listening to Smart, Banfield-Norris became momentarily overwhelmed and broke down in tears.

‘It’s just very, very powerful having you here,’ she said.

Smart also revealed today how she was turned off of therapy after a re-traumatizing experience immediately after she was rescued.

She recalled how she was taken to a children’s justice center the day after she got home and brought into a room with two psychiatrists, to whom she was told to speak openly about what had happened to her — so she assumed they were there to help.  

Listening to Smart, Banfield-Norris became momentarily overwhelmed and broke down in tears. 'It's just very, very powerful having you here,' she said

Listening to Smart, Banfield-Norris became momentarily overwhelmed and broke down in tears. 'It's just very, very powerful having you here,' she said

Listening to Smart, Banfield-Norris became momentarily overwhelmed and broke down in tears. ‘It’s just very, very powerful having you here,’ she said

Pinkett Smith also became emotional, and pointed out that there are a lot of missing people whose cases don't get nearly as much coverage as Smart's did

Pinkett Smith also became emotional, and pointed out that there are a lot of missing people whose cases don't get nearly as much coverage as Smart's did

Pinkett Smith also became emotional, and pointed out that there are a lot of missing people whose cases don’t get nearly as much coverage as Smart’s did

‘It was two men. Middle-aged. Older. On the way to the room, they open this closet and say, “You can choose any stuffed animal you want.” And I just remember feeling condescended too, because I was like, I’m 15. I just survived nine months without a stuffed animal. I’m pretty sure I can survive whatever’s gonna happen next.’

She said she ‘immediately shut down’ because the men were about the same age as her captors.

‘They were both clearly religious, which, bravo for them, but in that situation, where I had just come out of nine months of being abused and manipulated by someone who was trying to lose religion, that just made me feel uncomfortable.’

It got worse as she was asked to describe, in detail, what had happened to her. Smart said she had a sheltered upbringing and was ‘very innocent and naïve’ before her kidnapping. For example, in her home they didn’t use words like ‘penis’ and ‘vagina’ — they said ‘privates.’

But in the room with those two men, she was repeatedly pushed to explicitly describe what Mitchell had done to her.

‘They’re like, “OK, so what happened?” And I’d be like, “They hurt me.” And they’d be like, “Well how’d they hurt you?” [And I said] “Well, they molested me.” [And they said] “Well how’d they molest you?” [And I said] “Well, they raped me.” [And they said] “Well, do you know what rape is?” And I was like, “Well, yeah, he forced himself on me.”

‘And they’d be like, “Could you use the correct body parts?” So I finally had to get it down to, “He physically forced his penis into my vagina repeatedly.” That was terrible. By the time I left, I just knew that I never wanted to speak about it with anyone every again. I didn’t want to speak of what happened.’  

Smart was famously taken from her family's Salt Lake City home at knifepoint when she was just 14

Smart was famously taken from her family's Salt Lake City home at knifepoint when she was just 14

Smart was famously taken from her family’s Salt Lake City home at knifepoint when she was just 14

She spent nine months, from June 2002 to March 2003, in captivity, with Mitchell performing a 'marriage' ceremony with her and raped her repeatedly

She spent nine months, from June 2002 to March 2003, in captivity, with Mitchell performing a 'marriage' ceremony with her and raped her repeatedly

Fortunately, abductor and self-proclaimed prophet Brian David Mitchell didn't kill her — but he and his wife Wanda Barzee did take her away from home, chaining her down in a makeshift campsite nearby before moving her to Lakeside, California

Fortunately, abductor and self-proclaimed prophet Brian David Mitchell didn't kill her — but he and his wife Wanda Barzee did take her away from home, chaining her down in a makeshift campsite nearby before moving her to Lakeside, California

She spent nine months, from June 2002 to March 2003, in captivity, with Mitchell performing a ‘marriage’ ceremony with her and raped her repeatedly

She said it was later explained to her that the psychiatrists were there to get her testimony so they could stand in proxy for her at trial — but she didn’t know that at the time, and assumed that it was what therapy was like.

‘If this is what therapy is, I do not want it. And I refused. I refused to have therapy. Which, of course, panicked my parents. So they went and saw a therapist,’ she said.

Her parents’ therapist told them that this was OK — but they needed to be prepared ‘because ultimately you both will be her biggest therapists, and you need to be in a place where you can handle that.’

In retrospect, with a better understanding of therapy, she realizes that it could have been useful at the time — but ‘going back to every dark moment’ was not what she wanted at the time.

She went into some detail about those dark moments, looking back to what it was like for her to be stolen from her room in the middle of the night.

‘Everyone teaches you what you should do if you catch on fire. To look both ways when you cross the street. And thinking back on my exact situation, nobody really tells you what you should do in that situation,’ she said.

‘When I woke up, there was a knife pressed against my throat. A little bit more pressure, and he could have just killed me.

‘I don’t regret not screaming, I don’t regret doing what he told me, because I’m still alive. And I don’t know that I would be had I not. Because I do believe that he absolutely was capable of killing me and then maybe taking my sister, or killing her too.’  

Smart was eventually found at age 15 fter witnesses in Sandy, Utah called police. One said she recognized Smart, while another said she recognized the abductor

Smart was eventually found at age 15 fter witnesses in Sandy, Utah called police. One said she recognized Smart, while another said she recognized the abductor

Smart was eventually found at age 15 fter witnesses in Sandy, Utah called police. One said she recognized Smart, while another said she recognized the abductor

Smart is pictured with her parents in 2005. She said they got therapy so they could help her when she needed it

Smart is pictured with her parents in 2005. She said they got therapy so they could help her when she needed it

Smart is pictured with her parents in 2005. She said they got therapy so they could help her when she needed it 

After taking her out the window, Mitchell and Barzee took her into hiding.

‘My captors had taken me to southern California for the winter. Their plan was to kidnap seven young girls. I was just the first. And they actually made several attemps while I was with them,’ she said.

After the last failed attempt to kidnap another girl, Smart convinced Mitchell and Barzee to return to Utah.

That’s when vigilant locals spotted her and Mitchell and made separate reports to police.

‘I don’t think I’ll ever lose my faith in humanity, because everyone kept their eyes open and just simple phone calls to the police ultimately led to my rescue, my homecoming,’ she said.

She recalled the moment they were walking down the street when several police cars pulled up, with officers jumping out and asking them questions.

‘Initially, I didn’t respond and say yes, I’m Elizabeth Smart, please help me, please save me,’ she said.

‘So many people over the years have been like, “Well why didn’t you?” she went on. ‘I didn’t immediately yell or scream or admit who I was because for nine months, no one could protect me from them.

‘For nine months, he raped me, chained me up, did whatever he wanted to do to me, and there was never anyone there to protect me.  

Brian David Mitchell (pictured) was convicted in 2010 and is serving a life sentence

Brian David Mitchell (pictured) was convicted in 2010 and is serving a life sentence

Brian David Mitchell (pictured) was convicted in 2010 and is serving a life sentence

Pictured: Mitchell

Pictured: Mitchell

Mitchell's wife Wanda Barzee (pictured) was sentenced to 15 years in prison and in the plea deal was given credit for the seven years she already served. She was released from prison in September 2018 and now lives in the same town as Smart, despite Smart's pleas to the parole board not to set her free

Mitchell's wife Wanda Barzee (pictured) was sentenced to 15 years in prison and in the plea deal was given credit for the seven years she already served. She was released from prison in September 2018 and now lives in the same town as Smart, despite Smart's pleas to the parole board not to set her free

Mitchell’s wife Wanda Barzee (right) was sentenced to 15 years in prison and in the plea deal was given credit for the seven years she already served. She was released from prison in September 2018 and now lives in the same town as Smart, despite Smart’s pleas to the parole board not to set her free

‘I didn’t know these police officers. I didn’t know what they were capable of. I didn’t know if they could protect me. But I did know that my captor was so close, he was right next to me. He was physically touching me.

‘And I knew they were capable of killing me. And they threatened me with that every single day.

‘My goal was to survive and I didn’t know if I said something that I would. But I knew if I did what they told me to do, that there was a chance for me to survive.

She said she couldn’t admit to police who she was until she was finally separated from her captors.

Smart is now a mother to three children of her own: six-year-old Chloe, four-year-old James, and two-year-old Olivia with her husband, Matthew Gilmour.

She is already speaking to Chloe about what happened to her.

‘They are young,’ she said, ‘but someone told me that as soon as your child starts asking questions, that’s the right time to start talking to them.

‘One of my captors was coming up for parole, and I was supposed to go down to the prison that day to go give a victim impact statement. My daughter, my oldest, didn’t really want me to go and kept asking [questions].

‘I started talking to her, but it’s not in graphic detail. “When mommy was younger, there was a man who broke into my home and hurt me. And now he and his wife are in jail and I’m going down there to make sure that they stay in jail,”‘ she said.

Smart admitted that she is ‘overprotective’ as a mother, but that’s where her husband comes in to ‘pull her back down to earth.’  

Smart also spoke about she was turned off of therapy after a retraumitizing experience immediately after she was rescued

Smart also spoke about she was turned off of therapy after a retraumitizing experience immediately after she was rescued

Smart also spoke about she was turned off of therapy after a retraumitizing experience immediately after she was rescued

Smart is now a mother to three children of her own with her husband, Matthew Gilmour

Smart is now a mother to three children of her own with her husband, Matthew Gilmour

Smart is now a mother to three children of her own with her husband, Matthew Gilmour

Though Mitchell is serving life in prison, Barzee was sentenced to just 15 years in prison. In a plea deal. she was given credit for the seven years she had already served.

She was released from prison in September 2018 and now lives in the same town as Smart, despite Smart’s pleas to the parole board not to set her free.

Smart admitted she was ‘disappointed’ in the outcome, but said it gives her a greater appreciation for those victims who never even have a ‘smidgen of justice.’

‘At least I got something. How many more haven’t?’ she said. 

Smart also said that having her family around her supporting her made a difference in her recovery.  

‘How many victims are there who are kidnapped or abused by their family members? The very ones that are supposed to protect them are the ones hurting them. And that sense of betrayal,’ she said.

‘We shouldn’t compare what we go through, but it makes me feel that I am so blessed, and I am so lucky because I was kidnapped by a stranger.’

She said that she was also fortunate to have the support of her community, because no one had ever questioned whether she was actually kidnapped or if she ran away.

‘Everything that I have always said has been accepted. And how many victims, how many survivors are not believed?’

Her kids are six-year-old Chloe, four-year-old James, and two-year-old Olivia

Her kids are six-year-old Chloe, four-year-old James, and two-year-old Olivia

Her kids are six-year-old Chloe, four-year-old James, and two-year-old Olivia

Smart is pictured with her children

Smart is pictured with her children

Smart admitted that she is 'overprotective' as a mother, but that's where her husband comes in to 'pull her back down to earth'

Smart admitted that she is 'overprotective' as a mother, but that's where her husband comes in to 'pull her back down to earth'

Smart is pictured with her children. Smart admitted that she is ‘overprotective’ as a mother, but that’s where her husband comes in to ‘pull her back down to earth’

She said this is what makes the difference between ‘moving forward and having a healthy life or bottling it inside you and then being on a different trajectory.’

Pinkett Smith points out that there are a lot of missing people whose cases don’t get nearly as much coverage as Smart’s did.

She runs the names and photos of several of them on the screen, including Alexis Scott, Jonathan Bandabaila, Dashad Laquinn Smith, Sophie Reeder, Artreveon Brown, Osiel Rico, Kierra Coles, Akia Eggleston, Lashaya Stine, Tyarra Williams, Laquanta Riley, Kristen Galvan, Tiffany Foster, Keeshae Jacobs, Isabella Manson, Madyson Vitou, and Misty McGinn.

‘When I think of all of the people — I mean, so many. So many — whose stories never even see the light of day,’ Smart said.

‘I live in this field every day, and all the time I hear stories I have never heard. And they’re not just brand new stories of ten minutes ago. They’re stories of five, ten, 20 years ago. And I’ve never heard of them. Someone is missing. Are they any less worthy? Has any less of a hole been left because they’re gone?’

The episode also delves into the disappearance of Daniel Robinson, a 24-year-old geologist who. has been missing for over three months in Arizona.

‘I don’t think there’s anyone, in all the millions of times that your episodes get watched, that could say that any one of these families is any less worthy than any other family to have their case persued, and any less of worthy than anybody else, myself included, to come home,’ said Smart.

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